She did tell him she loved him, but assures me that as soon as she said it, she regretted it
Those messages, emails even the most innocuous are devastating. What makes me sick is what my H gossiped to her about me. WTF why couldn’t he leave me out of it? What kind of man gossips about someone who takes care of him? Well now I don’t take care of him. We are on equal footing. I work full time now and if he wants to eat dinner well he has to help make it. OK I do his laundry, BUT I SWEAR THAT’S IT. ok and his ironing…..ULK I’m hopless.
Hang in there you are on the right road by cutting that princess loose. There’s a real Queen out there ready to give as good as she gets!
She thought my h wouldn’t mind having her after her h. She thought she could wipe me off the ace of the earth and no one would notice. My sil, who my bil left as year too, has found a new man, and guess what? He apparently looks like my bil.
Decimated: Sounds similar to my wife. My wife said they could never have gotten away with going away together. They did an awful lot of texting and talked about sex a lot … We have an amazing sex life, so I’m assuming they talked about sex for his sake and that this was the hook that kept him tied to her.
I found a couple of conversations that, to me, indicated their love for each other. But after the fog lifted, she says that what they shared wasn’t love, more like infatuation. https://kissbrides.com/pt-pt/blog/asiatico-mulheres-vs-american-mulheres/ I guess I have to believe that in order to move on. I too found reading all those texts and messages hard to bear, but felt it was necessary in order to get the truth.
She and the OM made “fantasy” plans to go away to a resort down south or secluded cabin to just have sex she said
There was a lot of texting, sexting and I’m sure naked pictures being sent back and forth. Continue reading “Your right th, my h ow honestly believed my kids would love her, and want her over me”